Total Tips of Family

5 tips keep on long-distance going steady

2009-12-02T04:14:00.000-08:00

Love doesn’t know any places and time, feeling could be sprout any time. Thus, many couples have different distance, river, mountain, sea, and country. These couples have challenges, if trust is not strong, it could be broken easily. Here there are some tips to avoid it.

1. Communication

Right now, everything is easy way, even you have different places but still many communication tools could be used, such as phone, chatting via internet etc. hence there is no reason for not doing that. Suggestions, if you have hesitancy, distrustfulness, and bad feeling, you should tell them to your couple. Don’t hide a way !

2. Taken by surprise

Surprise often becomes fresher thing for couple, for example, you can send flower or something like that to fill yearning.

3. Make rules

To avoid misunderstanding, both of you should make regulation. For example, how long you must have meeting, you keep in touch each other every day, or to meet on special day etc.

4. Trust and Patient

When both of you have made commitment to be a long-distance. So trust is very essential. If you cannot do that, you should not try it. Because you must be tired and bored with hesitancy and untruthfulness because you cannot watch out him/her. If you have problem, let you share to find the solution.

5. To predict on the next.

The relationship that has aim, you must be more spirit to run it, long-distance must have stronger commitment. Good luck

Tips to solve ex-boy/girl friend

2009-10-26T21:58:00.000-07:00

Sometimes, we well separate with ex-boy/girl friend, he/she goes on his/her life without you at. However someone cannot explain how’s feeling when broken. In this case, ex-boy/girl often comes to your life back, though he/she just wants to show him/her self and push us to remind an old nice expression. These following tips to solve ex-boy/girl friend:

1. Be careful to show your attitude and behavior to your ex-boy/girl. This one is very important. Perhaps we think that our ex-boy/girl doesn’t love again, but, who knows? Because of your attitude can make him/her misunderstanding.

2. Often talking your special friend to him/her. Though it’s not too important, however it can change his/her willing to close you.

3. Become your ex-boy/girl as measurement. You can show that without him/her, I can be happier. But don’t tell much about inconvenient life, let him/her know that you are happier now.

4. Not too often receive to meet him/her, just reply his/her message if necessary.

5. When you are with him/her, don’t ever talk about the past cases. It is better to talk what you are getting now.

6. To avoid visiting nice impression place with him/her. Don’t do that, take new step.

Tips to economical of shopping

2009-10-11T20:38:00.000-07:00

“Outcome is more than income”. To do economical of your money, you have to control it when you go shopping to buy daily need. You should think that money is very worth. Thus, to know how to be economical, following these tips below:

1. Make of cost list

You should make of cost list that’s needed by family every month, avoiding to buy something is not on the list except emergency, do not buy unnecessary thing, and try to go shopping of near and cheap to economize transportation fee and your time.

2. Bring money sufficiently

This tips must be effective by bringing money is on the list, and cost of go-back with a bit extra money may not be used without emergency. Don’t bring your credit card and ATM to ovoid buying without planning.

3. Preparation before to shopping center

Prepare yourself at home before going shopping to avoid something makes a big outcome. For example, having breakfast before leaving for, so that not needs to buy.

4. Restrict your shopping time

Focus to buy what is on your list. If you have bought already, you will go home, the sooner the more economical.

5. Not bring your children

Going shopping alone is more effective than going with children, because they must be eager to buy something.

Keep in your mind these tips for someone who wants to economize cost of shopping.

Tricks to keep lustful with couple

2009-10-08T02:51:00.000-07:00

Keep fresh relationship with your couple into some ways. Love relation is not one of thing that always owns mood static. The condition could change and get up-down. To avoid these ones to awake lustful back. Every couple should keep romantic way to have sensation. These following tips to have love relationship:

1. You can write love letter for your couple. Hereby, you can do via email, sms, or letter. However, it is better to write by hand. Even though we stay far distance but feel close.

2. Put flower on his or her work desk, and write romantic expression, so you should arrange the romantic words to remind him or her when was going steady. You can write: “you reach my heart….you is my own tonight.

3. Invite your couple to hang out together to remind romantic era done. So every couple must be available, you can choose place and time to create romantic.

4. Give surprise on your couple special day such as birthday; show me that you are eager to make your couple happy. Give a gift, as your attention. Try to do that well

4 Tokens to have Matching Couple

2009-10-01T23:25:00.000-07:00

As beloved couple who will go forward to household, many things sometimes make you worried. Sometimes, both of you do not tell each other into several days. Now, keep in your mind this wise word, “two human being who mutual love owns emotional, spiritual, and physical each other. Only by staring down her/his eyes or listening to her/his voice, you can feel happy as if want to always be together. Thus, 4 following signs to have matching couple:

1. Work together between one another.

You and she always get mutual helping in unimportant and important problems to face some life problems without involving of others.

2. Soul and emotion feeling

Have you ever not talked with your couple in several days then mutual calling on the same time? Sometimes, this sixth sense will tell what should be done to make condition fair. To fell longing can guess mind that your couple has reaction to you. And it is one of blessing to human being.

3. Not feel bored when go with.

You can think if you go with her, do you have quiet and happy feeling that make you enjoyable? When you are together every time and every day without feeling bored, this is one of sign that you are good couple man!

4. Honest of each you.

Nobody perfect, everyone has strength and weakness, thus both of you have to realize the weaknesses each other

Tips to postpone pregnancy

2009-10-01T01:33:00.000-07:00

Not all spouse couple who’s got married want to have child. Perhaps one of them has yet to finish her/his studying etc. planning and choosing the way to postpone pregnancy healthy and safety. Every contraception tool has strength and weakness. Thus, to choose way to postpone pregnancy is better to discuss with your couple then to doctor.

These following ways to postpone pregnancy:

A. Natural contraception.

To use natural contraception does not need particular tool. There are two kinds:

1). Calendar system. This method counts and predicts prosperous time. Having sex been done when your wife is not prosperous time. This way needs account correctly.

2). Bringing out penis before ejaculation. This way is not effective because sperm can go out before orgasm.

B. Mechanic contraception.

1). Condom. The function is to accommodate sperm so that it doesn’t come into vagina. The strength is to be bought easily. Then the weakness is not all people can use it because allergy and it could leak.

2). Femindom. It is like condom but used by woman. Femindom is very hard to use.

3). Spiral or Intra uterin Device (IUD). It is small and many various. And it can avoid ovum to meet with sperm. Spiral can use 2 to 5 years.

4). Spermisida. It can make sperm not function. It can be foam, jelly, cream, and aerosol or tablet. Before having sex, it is put or come into vagina.

C. Permanent contraception.
This one can be chosen because a number of children reason. Husband and wife are operated, vasectomy for man and tubectomy for woman.

The characteristics of cheating husband

2009-09-17T23:15:00.000-07:00

From minute to minute, story about cheating husband is very often heard, however just few women know the characteristics of cheating husband. These following tips about the characteristics of cheating. BE CAUTIOUS!. Perhaps those characteristics are being with you guys.

1. Your husband becomes kind heart suddenly.

This clue of your husband could be known after doing his action; the cheater usually has innocent feeling. So he spoils his couple. If your husband becomes kind heart suddenly. So you must be careful !!!

2. Your husband always lies.

Of course the cheating husband always lies. He pretends to work but he finally meets with his cheating girl. So you need to know how honest your husband is.

3. Your husband Keeps distance and often gets angry.

You can guess your husband when he is always angry without any reasons, it means he is stress because he wants to separate wit you soon. You can guess hen he always keeps distance with you, perhaps his feeling is not with you again.

If you find one of them above, you should be calm down, don’t be jealous. You should prove it whether your husband is cheating or not.

Tips: having the first child for young couple

2009-09-15T04:36:00.000-07:00

to own the first child for young couple is one of something new, insight and knowledge in taking care baby is quite important. Keep your family harmony and around, avoiding it in front of child. These some following tips below:

1. Do be panic to care of child

To care of and keep baby, it’s better not panic then any reaction any more. Do not take dizzy with child problems such as crying, drinking and eating. Because, the his problem, can stand getting a bit problems.

2. Baby crying is normal.

Don’t worry if your baby crying, because this one of baby activities. Except if he/she is crying too long, so she/he needs bringing to doctor.

3. Don’t wake your baby up for feeding.

To give feeding for baby is better done before baby has long sleep so that not to disturb your baby sleep. Even though some assumptions that give feeding too much is good, yet it not good.

4. Keep cleanness with baby care.

You must be diligent to keep cleanness baby so that he/she is not easy to be attacked disease

5. Don’t be negligent to keep and care your baby.

There is something new for baby should be noticed such as consume medicine and other dangerous thing

A good wife, are you?

2009-09-15T01:28:00.000-07:00

A few days ago I heard speech from religious person who explains about polygamy or could have wives more than one. He tried to explain of religion side till social side. However the end of his speech, he gave his tips for women to be good wives so that their husbands could be loyal:

1. being a wife is like a secretary

A secretary is paid a million with volunteer and sincere will serve what is the boss wanted, to make schedule etc.

2. being a wife is like a servant

A servant who is hired will be very obedient to her boss, and she is not brave to refuse what is boss wanted. She always makes her boss happy.

3. being a wife is like a cook

Whatever ordered by buyers as long as they can pay, so a cook with her pleasure wants to cook what buyers ordered.

4. being a wife is like a whore

This one can be a key of family needed, if a wife could make her husband satisfied, so husband will always be loyal, therefore it is needed strong power and high libido.
These tips following above can be useful for wives…good luck